breaking news: i have a boyfriend

yes people. you read that right.

after nearly four years of singleness, finally an innocent poor guy was caught into my net (insert devil laugh here muahahahaha).

but what happened? how? why?

it's weird. for a long time, i dreamed of having my prince charming, like thousands of women do. but after many disappointing attempts (read my anthology of dumbasses), i decided it was ok to be single. i don't know exactly when or where. just realized i did not need a boyfriend. i felt good alone, and decided to stay that way.

this was over a year ago. i began to apply this famous proverb of my land: "mejor sola que mal acompañada" (could be translated as "better alone than in bad company").

and i did like being single. really.

but humanity is hard to understand. when girls want a guy, guys don't want. when girls don't want, guys do. it's funny to witness this phenomenon of the human race. the thing is that, suddenly, i started having a lot of pegue. i told them i was not interested, told them i was free as the wind. "i'm an impossible woman, so sorry honey".

i was really fine being single, and i didn't want to lose the perks of my bachelorhood-girl-life in an easy way.

but... a very peculiar guy appeared on the scene. despite all the times i said no, he never gave up.

he earned my heart and trust little by little, and proved that he deserves them.

it's rare to getting used to not being alone, especially when that was not planned. but it's been a few weeks now and everything's ok. with this post i'm making it official.

all right, all right... i am saying it now. not all men are the same.

but girls, don't lose sight of the kind of guy you want for yourself. don't settle for other than what you really want. don't betray yourself. and mr. right will arrive.

permit him to conquer, pamper, love, convince you, slowly.

stick with the one who admires you, because of the woman you are. the one who looks for you and wants to be with you, without you even ask. the one who makes everything to be with you. the one who clearly is mad about you. the one who proudly says that is with you when somebody calls him. the one who looks at you and can't hide that he's melting. the one who doesn't lose the opportunity of bragging to his friends that he's busy cause he's with you. the one who respects you. the one who arrived when you didn't want or ask for him, but you did need him. the one who arrived when you need him more. that one. stick with that one.